There are a few reasons why someone might fake an orgasm. Some people feel that it is the only way to get close to climax without having to be honest with their partner about how they are feeling.
Other reasons include overcoming sex blues and past relationship issues. However, faking can lead to some negative side-effects.
1. Give him a hug
While faking an orgasm might seem like the easiest way to end sex, it is important to remember that it can have negative effects on both your emotional well-being and your relationship. It can also perpetuate the myth that orgasms are necessary for good sex. Instead, try to encourage your partner to communicate about their sexual desires and explore the many techniques that can help you reach orgasm. Vibrators and dildos are just two of the many options available to help you get there.
If you’re really into your guy and you think he is close to orgasming, give him a big hug. This will make him feel euphoric and he might even lose control.
Another thing you can do is moan. You can use your normal noises and increase the volume to make it more realistic. You can also touch his face and caress him in a rhythmic manner. Scratching his back and rubbing his shoulders can also be great signals that you’re getting closer to orgasming. If you want to take it a step further, make a few gasps and change your breathing pattern.
2. Moan
Moaning is often seen as a sign that someone is in the mood, although audible moans aren’t actually the telltale sign of pleasure, according to researchers. But moaning is still a good way to get your partner turned on and to signal that climax is about to happen.
When faking an orgasm, it’s important to keep in mind that overacting can kill the mood and make you look silly. So don’t scream dirty words or shout “Oh my god” exclamations, and try to focus on the body movements that you normally make when you’re reaching climax. Think of all the alluring ways you’ve seen female actors writhe on screen and try to imitate those moves in real life, sex expert Marla Renee Stewart, M.A., of the sexual wellness brand Lovers, says.
Women sometimes fake an orgasm to show their partners that they are able to reach climax and are satisfied in bed, especially when the sex doesn’t come naturally. However, that can lead to a pattern of dishonesty and can put a strain on the relationship.
3. Talk
There are plenty of reasons why a guy might fake an orgasm, from worrying about hurting his partner’s feelings to wanting to finish up before Keeping Up With the Kardashians comes on. But it’s important to remember that even though faking an orgasm may seem dishonest, there are alternatives that can be more fulfilling for both partners.
For example, if a woman is having a hard time reaching climax she can try saying things in her partner’s ear that are sexy. Using words like “oh my god” can be embarrassing for both of you, but it’s also possible to make him feel arousal with other sounds like moaning religious outbursts and rubbing his back in a rhythmic way.
It’s also important for men to open up and talk about what they are experiencing during sex so that they can get the help they need if they are having trouble getting there. This can be a difficult conversation to have, but it is one that can lead to a better sexual experience for both parties in the long run.
4. Scratch his back
While faking an orgasm can be a good way to lighten your mood and ease your anxiety about the upcoming sex, it’s important not to make this a habit. Not only will your man likely suspect that you’re faking, but it can also lead to feelings of pressure and frustration about sexual performance.
To create the feeling of ecstasy in your body, grab onto him tightly and moan loudly. During this time, scratch him with your nails in a repetitive fashion. It’s especially effective when you scratch in a rhythm that mirrors his movements. This will entice him and will also cause his body to twitch in response.
Many women fake orgasms because they feel like their guy isn’t getting them off and don’t want to hurt his ego. However, faking orgasms can be damaging to your relationship, as it teaches him that you’re only interested in him for his physical sensations. It’s best to communicate openly with your partner about your sexual needs and desires to avoid this cycle of faking orgasms. Alternatively, you can use sex toys during sex to add more physical stimulation and help you reach orgasm faster.
5. Curl your toes
Many women equate curled toes with an orgasm thanks to their frequent appearance in movies and TV shows that showcase sexual arousal. In real life, however, it’s not a good indicator of pleasure. The truth is, curling your toes actually reduces blood flow to your genitals, which can actually dampen arousal.
If you’re trying to fake an orgasm, skip the toe-curling and focus on your body movements instead. Claim space by pushing your hips up and down, writhing around, and getting all lithe and serpentine like in those romantic comedies.
While faking an orgasm may seem harmless, it can be very damaging to your relationship. According to a study published in Archives of Sexual Behavior, most women who faked orgasms did so because of issues in their relationship. Whether it’s communication difficulties or feelings of pressure, it’s important to discuss your needs and desires with your partner before getting into the bedroom. The best way to do that is through open and honest communication. This will prevent both of you from feeling unsatisfied, which can cause resentment down the line.
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