If you’ve ever been on a date or been kissed, then you’re probably familiar with the arousal cycle. You get turned on, your excitement peaks, then you reach the plateau and eventually orgasm.
You can use your words and body to create this tension. Try a few of these tactics: 1. Reveal your fantasies to her.
1. Talk about sex.
Talking about sex is one of the hardest things to do with girls, because it’s a highly personal subject that women feel more vulnerable about than men do. This is why so many women resist opening up about their sexual experiences and desires, especially to guys they’re attracted to.
But with the right approach, it’s possible to talk about sex with a girl in a way that makes her feel confident and excited. A great place to start is by introducing the subject by talking about sex with other people, or even just using a question that triggers her curiosity (e.g., “How do you think women feel about sex with other women?”).
From there, you can move on to more specific questions that make her think of her own sexual desires and fantasies. And don’t be afraid to reveal your own fantasies, as this can turn her on — especially if you don’t say anything too explicit. Playing a game where you ask and answer each other’s questions, such as drawing names or playing rock paper scissors, can be another fun way to open up the conversation about sex.
2. Make her guess.
When a girl is horny, her thoughts are on sex and she wants to move things forward. However, she might be confused by her newfound sexual desires and have no idea how to do that. She may be a kitten who wants to nuzzle and be warm and affectionate or she might be a lioness who’s ready for the challenge of getting what she wants.
If she’s looking at your lips a lot, it could mean that she’s thinking about kissing you or just wanting to make out with you. The lips are one of the most sensual parts of the body and they’re not considered private – everyone can see them.
Also, if she keeps touching you or draping herself over you, it’s a sign that she is into you and wants to get closer to you physically. Touching creates feelings of connection and love, so if she’s putting her hands on yours or grabbing your shoulder it can be a huge turn on for her. Also, eye contact is another great way to tell if a girl is horny, because it signals confidence, respect and deep desire.
3. Make her imagine.
The feeling of butterflies in the stomach isn’t just a childhood thing — when your tingles suddenly pop up in other parts of your body, you may be horny. It’s a completely normal part of puberty, when your hormones change and your brain develops the orbitofrontal complex, which processes sexual feelings and images, per Planned Parenthood.
You might notice her eyes trailing to your lips as she’s talking, which is a sign she’s interested in kissing you. If she keeps doing this, you can ask her if you should kiss her and see what she says.
If she blushes around you, that’s another sign she’s horny and wants to seduce you. She might also start making a bunch of innuendo comments, which means she’s trying to hint at sexual things and is hoping you’ll get the idea.
However, don’t be a creep and put your hands all over her because this will only turn her off. If she’s horny, let her body language and your eyes do the work and you’ll have her going to bed with you in no time.
4. Make her feel desired.
If a girl makes an effort to look her best for you, it’s a good sign that she’s into you and horny. She might change her outfit, straighten her hair or put on some extra cologne just for you.
If she blushes around you, it’s a sign that she finds you attractive and horny. You can also tell she’s horny by the way her voice drops when she talks to you.
She might mention her fantasies about sex. This doesn’t mean she wants to get physical with you, but it means that she is thinking about sexy stuff.
You can turn her on even more by revealing your own fantasies about her. Just remember that it’s always better to play safe and ask her for consent before anything more intimate happens. So, if she says no, that’s okay, but don’t take it personally. If she agrees, then you can start getting a bit more naughty and step things up a notch. You can also try playing a game with her like two truths and a lie. This can get really hot and steamy quickly!
5. Make her fantasize about sex.
A girl who wants to seduce you will often make sexual double entendres in the middle of an otherwise normal conversation. She may also talk about her past sexual experiences or intimate desires that she might not share with anyone else. This is because she feels comfortable around you and trusts that you won’t judge her for what she really wants.
Her body language will change too. For example, she may start walking with her hips a little higher and wiggle a bit when she’s talking to you. Her voice will also sound lower and breathier when she’s horny.
She might even blush around you or try to hide it. She might be imagining all kinds of scenarios in her head about you, which is a clear sign that she’s into you and ready for sex.
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