Erotic spanking can be a powerful sexual experience for couples. It can enhance arousal and heighten the excitement of orgasms.
HG: “Sensual spanking can start off with light smacks and then move into harder blows. As long as it’s consensual, mindful and focused on connection, I think it can be part of a balanced sex diet alongside more vanilla sex acts.”
Scientists have found artistic depictions of spanking during sex in the tombs of the Etruscan civilization of ancient Italy. They are among the oldest surviving art pieces of this nature.
It’s a way to release tension
Spanking is an effective way to relieve stress and anxiety. It also releases feel-good hormones, and helps to calm the mind. Moreover, it can be erotic, especially if the bottom is very sensitive. The lower inner portion of the buttocks is known as the sweet spot, and it’s close to the genitals. This makes it a prime spot for spanking. Moreover, the increased blood flow in the pelvic area that accompanies spanking induces penile and clitoral erection.
In erotic spanking, the top (or giver) spanks the bottom for sexual pleasure. The spanking can be light or firm, and it can occur as foreplay or during sex. The slapping can be done with hands, paddles, or canes. It can be done in a variety of positions, including the over-the-knee position.
Some people may find it difficult to express their interest in erotic spanking, but it is important to let your partner know what you want. If you’re in a committed relationship, it’s likely that your Alpha male will be happy to try this kink with you. It’s just a matter of finding the right time to do so.
Some people may argue that slapping for pleasure is oppressive, but this is not the case. Women are allowed to choose their own form of pleasure, and spanking is a great way to do so. However, it’s important to remember that erotic spanking should be consensual and mindful. It should not be used to hurt someone, and it’s always best to consult a professional before trying this kink.
It’s a way to bond
Spanking is one of the most popular erotic acts in the BDSM scene. The pain and pleasure of a good spanking can trigger orgasms and increase sexual excitement. The intense euphoria that comes from orgasms helps to release tension and can lead to a deep, satisfying bond between partners.
Biologically, spanking causes the brain to release dopamine, which warms the reward and pleasure centers. It also arouses the nipple and clitoris, causing a sensation of gratification. For some masochistic spanking enthusiasts, the more painful the spanking, the better. Moreover, the lower inner portion of the buttocks is known as the “sweet spot.” This area is close to the genitals and can be stimulated by spanking. In addition, the increased blood flow that occurs with spanking can cause a penile and clitoral erection.
For many people, spanking is a way to bond with a partner or to express their kinkier side. It can also be a way to bond with children. It can even be a way to relive childhood traumas. Sigmund Freud theorized that a traumatic upbringing can lead to sadomasochism. However, many consenting adults who enjoy spanking don’t have a traumatic upbringing. They may have a fetish for dominance, submission, humiliation or a combination of these feelings. Alternatively, they may be channeling their natural violent and punitive impulses into safe, exciting spanking scenes with partners.
It’s a way to punish
Spanking is not just a way to punish children, but can be a erotic act for adults. This is known as “sexualized spanking” and it can be part of a D/s fantasy, or roleplay that involves dominance and submission (D/s). It’s also a fetish that many consenting adults enjoy, especially those with a traumatic childhood.
During erotic spanking, the top (or giver) spanks the bottom, usually the buttocks. It can be done once or a few times, and can even happen during sex or foreplay. Usually, the top will use a hand or paddle and it can be very hard. This kind of impact play is very erotic, and it can even lead to an orgasm.
Dr Plante notes that this type of sexualized spanking is a response to what she calls cultural, subcultural and interpersonal “sexual scripts.” These are the sociological blueprints that shape our sexual interests. For example, a child may have a “script” that says they should hate their parent. That feeling is unintegratable, and it must be channeled into something else.
In D/s, sexualized spanking can be a very powerful experience. This is because of the erotic elements involved in it, and the feelings of power and control. Interestingly, it’s possible that these kinds of kinky fantasies have been around for longer than the human race. They likely flowed through the erotic minds of our bonobo, chimpanzee and gorilla cousins as well.
It’s a way to teach
Aside from the fact that it’s one of the most erotic forms of impact play, sensual spanking can also be an effective way to teach. For those that are just starting out in this form of kink, it can be helpful to lay out ground rules before the scene begins and establish a safe word. In addition to this, it’s important to communicate with your partner throughout the spanking and pay attention to their reaction. They may be more or less sensitive to the type of intensity they prefer and this can change over time.
Unlike bondage, tortures, and other kinkier plays within the BDSM realm, spanking is an accessible activity that can be used by people who don’t consider themselves sadomasochists. According to Dr. Plante, this is because of how it feels.
In her study, Plante argues that sexualized spanking is a part of our internal scripts. These are the sociological blueprints that determine who, what, when, where, and why we engage in certain activities. These scripts include cultural, subcultural, and interpersonal sexual scripts.
During the latter half of the 20th century, various fetish magazines and pornographic videos featuring erotic spanking became more widely available due to changes in censorship laws and advancements in technology. In turn, this enabled consumers of various levels of pre-existing interest and/or knowledge to explore and consume content relating to this particular genre.
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